1. To hear yourself bitching and realize everyone is stressed the hell out because you have them on edge. Then you drop what you were bitching about and just as quickly find a solution.
Take away the bitch and find common ground
(Continous bitching) YOU ARE NEVER HERE! WHY ARE YOU WORKING SO LATE? I Should just leave! Or I could pamper you and wash your back. That way I could unbitch.
When you go to sleep expecting to take a nap, but wake up the next day or many hours later with extreme frustration and strong feelings of fomo.
Joe: I'm just going to take a nap I'll go out with you guys later for that really fun thing we have planned
Zach: okay see you soon!
*12 hours later*
Joe: (wakes up) NOOOOO!!!!!!! Fuck my balls
Zach: last night was amazing you must be unhatched homie