When a TV show or movie forces a demographic into a role that fits like a squarepeg into a round hole, often to appeal to a woke audience.
Yo man makin' shaneequa a crochet-lovin' bookworm ain't. Dat girl booty way too juicy to be sittin' crib friday nights knittin sheeit. Square-pegging is all they doin.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.