similar to a wingman, but not exactly the same. A wingman suggests that your job is to distract the friend of a girl while your friend goes in for the poops. When being a sidepoops, you job can be that, or you can just be coming along for some easy poops in a pre-set double dating scenario.
"Dude, if she has a friend she wants to bring, I'll be your sidepoops."
Similar to the traditional sexual act of "backshots" where the act involves one partner being penetrated from behind. However, rather than the standard positioning instead of doing it from the behind it is realigned to a sideways lateral position.
Person 1: Yo want some boba and backshots?
Person 2: How about boba and sideshots instead ;)?
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.