chillin with your boys, drinkin, relaxin, f'in around instead of doing homework, listenin to music, watching sports, overall just doing nothing besides havin a good time
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.