noun or verb, is an alternative to "fuck" ... but with a slight, important difference of effect. To some ears, "fuck" (
like "bang") can sound
like an aggressive
act, and/or violent conquest, whereas "shab" (a softer sound) sounds more
like an enjoyable fun activity. "Shaboogling" is still often the preferred term among women who are very keen on "shaboogling", very much enjoy shaboogling men (and/or women) and getting shaboogled themselves. But don't so much want to get "fucked" (though if talking about another woman, especially a rival, it
may well be a different story!)