Ruffed means that something was totally stupid and or unnecessary. Ruffed can be used to describe actions or events. The word comes from the acronym "RUFS" meaning "are you fucking serious". You may also hear ruffid, rufft or rufferd.
eg:
MARK: dude, did you hear what Peyton did?
NICK: no man, I haven't.
MARK: he totally drank all the booze last night and puked all over my place!
NICK: you man that's ruffed
The act of finding a random person in your friends list on Facebook that you don't know and who you never remember friend requesting or accepting their friend request.
Max: Yo, you know this guy?
Sean: No. Why?
Max: He posted Happy Birthday on my wall and i have no idea who he is. It's a little creepy, not to mention awkward.
Sean: Sounds like you've been Facebook Rufied bro.