When a cute, pretty or beautiful girl (or a girl that just has this mentality) tries to play games when it comes to dating. She could lie about something to hide the truth from you but mostly her insecurities will cause complications in your life to try and control you. She could also think that she's worth more than you and that her beauty is on a pedestal and doesn't think she needs a man.
Joe: Man, I've been on like five dates with her and I still haven't hit it yet.
Me: She's making you work for it.
Joe: I tried to ignore her but then she'll invite me over her place and cook for me. Each time I try to get close, she'll push me away.
Me: That's that pretty girl bullshit.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.