multiality
multiality by livinginfrontofeternity August 2, 2023
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Multiality
The realization that more than two things can be true at the same time.
DBT: “Two things can be true.”
Me: “Cool. But what if it’s seven?”
You can love someone, be angry with them, understand them, disagree with them, feel hurt by them, and still want the best for them—all at the same time.
Duality is “both/and.”
Multiality is “yes, and…and…and…and…”
Basically, refusing to flatten a complicated human experience just because two is easier to count.
DBT: “Two things can be true.”
Me: “Cool. But what if it’s seven?”
You can love someone, be angry with them, understand them, disagree with them, feel hurt by them, and still want the best for them—all at the same time.
Duality is “both/and.”
Multiality is “yes, and…and…and…and…”
Basically, refusing to flatten a complicated human experience just because two is easier to count.
“I love you, I’m angry with you, I understand you, I disagree with you, and I still need a boundary. Apparently, that’s multiality.”
Multiality by Kaia Milena September 9, 2026
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mutuality
having a reciprocal degree and feeling of affection/attraction/interest between partners; the state derived from equality of attraction in a relationship
It was cool, this is the first relationship where I haven't had to chase a girl or campaign for her affection. She seemed as into me as I was into her. We had a total mutuality going on.
mutuality by roadstarjim May 9, 2011
multiplitude
multiplitude by jal-adam March 9, 2009
mutuality
one of the coolest features of facebook. another way of saying the number of mutual friends you have with someone. considered by Facebook© to be an accurate indicator of how good friends you will be with somebody, although often it's not the case in real life.
Chart!
1-5 mutual friends — decent
6-20 — fair/good
21-100 — strong
>100 friends — very strong
>>1000 — soulmate
0 — no mutuality
Chart!
1-5 mutual friends — decent
6-20 — fair/good
21-100 — strong
>100 friends — very strong
>>1000 — soulmate
0 — no mutuality
Dude 1: Dana and I have like 221 mutual friends together on facebook. it is evident our mutuality bonds us together
Dude 2: I have like 987 mutual friends with Bob, but I don't want to "friend" him because we've never actually talked in real life
Dude 2: I have like 987 mutual friends with Bob, but I don't want to "friend" him because we've never actually talked in real life
mutuality by go_agggggiess April 6, 2010
multinality
it is the belief that we exist in multitudes. we have the capacity to feel, be, and exist, as everything. ee are limitless. we exist in multitudes. our ancestors have created layers and layers and layers of creation, expression, freedom, and we exist in abundance within all of those layers
we exist in multinality.
multinality by dehlaani April 7, 2025
Multinnity
Multinnity by Hidden_USERS November 6, 2018
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