the desire to care less about things—to loosen your grip on your life, to stop glancing behind you every few steps, afraid that someone will snatch it from you before you reach the end zone—rather to hold your life loosely and playfully, like a volleyball, keeping it in the air, with only quick fleeting interventions, bouncing freely in the hands of trusted friends, always in play.
1) Adj. Someone who could go anywhere and do anything, but instead hangs around and makes your day shit. Used in conjunction with an noun.
2) Really boring person or waster. Has money or a good qualification but never does anything useful or fun. May complains a lot but never does anything about it.