its not you, its me
its not you, its me by Elly Cloridue February 19, 2009
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its not me its you
The worst possible way to break up with somebody because it's you since your the one who decided to date them. This is used rarely.
its not me its you by dating advice 101 January 21, 2016
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It's not you it's me
A phrase used when terminating a relationship. Usually used to confuse and/or draw attention away from the real reason the relationship is ending, because of the emotionally painful nature of the reason.
Rarely used in person, more often used in phone converstions, e-mails and voicemails.
Rarely used in person, more often used in phone converstions, e-mails and voicemails.
He was a nice guy, but he was as good in bed as a cement block. So I called him up last night and told him it was over, but it wasn't him it was me.
It's not you it's me by eight March 29, 2004
it's not you, it's me.
1)The biggest lie ever... truly means, "its not me, its you."
2)A warning sign for getting dumped.
3)A way to get out of a relationship while causing yourself the least amount of grief possible.
2)A warning sign for getting dumped.
3)A way to get out of a relationship while causing yourself the least amount of grief possible.
it's not you, it's me. by mara July 18, 2004
It's not you it's me
Person 1: I'm so so sorry but I can't have a relationship right now. It's not you it's me
Person 2: that's total bullshit. Just break up with me in an honest way and don't lie
Person 2: that's total bullshit. Just break up with me in an honest way and don't lie
It's not you it's me by lewis stylinson September 24, 2015
it's not you, it's me
I no longer find you attractive, but I can't say that because then I'll feel guilty. Oh, by the way, good riddance.
Girl: Listen, Harry, we need to talk...
Harry: huhuhuh whatfor sexy hot girl?
Girl: Look... it's not you, it's me. I don't think this is working out.
Harry: huhuhuh whatfor sexy hot girl?
Girl: Look... it's not you, it's me. I don't think this is working out.
it's not you, it's me by billus April 1, 2004
it's not you, it's me
it's not you, it's me by the Mad Shatter April 28, 2005
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