In reference to Minnesota-based businessman/con artist Denny Hecker, term is used when you get royally ripped off by somebody to the point where you lose large sums of money or expensive property.
Sean- Dude, I totally thought I got a great deal on Laker courtside seats for the game tonight, but after I paid for them, it turns out the tickets were a fake. Now I'm out ten grand.
Alex- You totally got heckered. You're wife's gonna be pissed.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.