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A shortening of the phrase: "Fuck my actual life".

Can be used in times of great distress and annoyance.

Used for more emphasis than the common "FML" phrase.
FMAL!
FMAL by Subtly Obvious! April 13, 2011
Related Words
fmafl • fmal • fmfl • fafl • fmmfl • FMANL • fafla • Faflawittar • Faflete • fafliffle
Abbreviation and texting alternative to the phrase Fuck 'Em All
In general terms, a term used in exasperation after being messed with, taken advantage of, or victimized by more than one person.
I hate people. All of them. FMALL!
FMALL by UnemployedPreggo September 16, 2009
When life is so shitty that FML just won't cut it, you have Fuck My Fucking Life
George: "Man I just got kicked out, FML"
Ryan: "Oh yeah? My girlfriend is cheating on me with my brother, I just got fired, and my herpes test came back positive, FMFL!"
George: "Yeah dude, FYFL, freal."
FMFL by alinaduh March 22, 2009

flafliculate 

To run about wildly in the nude, with all body parts bouncing.
Please do not flafliculate in our presence, thank you.
flafliculate by Robert E. Porter January 9, 2006

Erinn FlaFla 

A potato-loving girl who knows every tiktok dance to exist. The kinda girl to cut herself a fringe then regretting it so she chops it all off. So then unfortunately has to wear a headband everyday for around a year but it still hasn’t grown back so then she applied vapour rub hold it back. And now came to her senses and has to clip it back but she suits the clips look anyways so it’s gucci. Erinn Flahive has a boiling hatred for people who don’t like potatoes. She also gets told off by teachers for fidgeting (tiktok dancing). Erinn also applies vasaline or carmex (she pronounces it carMAX) around 17 times an hour. But overall Erinn Flahive is a very very fun person who loves a Sea Pebbles burger when ever given the chance. 10/10 would definitely recommend.
“Dude look at the crazy girl what is she doing?”

“Ah dude she’s definitely tiktok dancing her name must be Erinn FlaFla”
Fuck My Mother Fucking Life.
Its reserved for reallllly awful things that might happen to you.
"Weren't you going to take a bath before we left?"
"Yeah, but I decided against it"
"Didn't you turn on the water?!"
"Oh fuck, I did! FMMFL!"
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The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

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A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
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dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
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This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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