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A hetereosexual male with feminine charicteristics. Crying while watching chick flicks, The OC, The Bachelor, or James Blunt performances are all charicteristics of the feman. Femen may masquerade as musicians, playhwrites, or models. Feman are usually wine experts. The typical feman owns a pair of high end jeans (7s, Deisel, etc.) and dresses in vintage clothing. Femen also lack muscle tone.

Femen are passive aggressive, but will never engage in a physical conflict. A feman would urinate in someone's living room during a party, but when confronted would apologize and do anything to avoid a physical altercation.
Blake do you have to pre-party for the Golden Globes? You are such a Feman!

or

When Justin Timerlake got Punk'd he was a total Feman. He just let the IRS guys break his stuff and started crying.
feman by IsaacN January 29, 2006
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a combination of female and man; typically said to a man who does things a girl would do.
gay and feman are different, feman refers to someone who acts like a girl although gay is more sexuality-based.

don't repost, this is the original
random guy: you hang out with girls so much! feman!
sexist: you like cooking! feman!
you: fuck off, both of you. especially you, sexist.
feman by k1dn4m3df1ng3r December 29, 2022

female actor

An unnecessary term for an actress. There has been some recent confusion in the biz due to some women who seem to think that they are not equal to men (women are in fact equal but distinctly and thankfully different.)
These egomaniacs insist that they are 'actors' which fucks up the rest of us who see that the obvious is in fact the case; that they are actresses. This term - 'actress' - was okay for Katherine Hepburn and other greats of her time...why is it necessary for these 'womyn'- as they likely wish to be addressed - to try to compete where no competition is needed or warranted. A man is a man; a woman is a woman. An actor is a man; an actress is a woman. It really is quite simple.
FEMALE ACTOR RAISES HELL:

Dan: "Would the actresses looking to audition for the role of Cleo please gather to my left."

Tiffy: "Oh my gawd...I don't SEEEEE any ACTRESSES here DAaaaaN....Show me...show me you BASTARD...show me an actress...show me; you chauvanist PIIIG! I am an ACTOR as are all of the W--I--M--Y--N----here...AND I refUSE to be asked to be on your left...there is no 'left.' There is only 'personal flow.'!!!"

Rachel: "Step aside wannabe.....go back to hustling tables."

Dan: "Miss...you can go to tent 4 if you want to audition for the actors' rolls. We are running takes for Terminator IV...you might fit in there."
female actor by psiscott May 2, 2006

Female Chameleon 

A woman that claims to stand up for men's issues and act red-pilled, but does it for their own benefit by taking advantage of the fact that they are women, as opposed to doing it to help solve men's issues, thus demonstrating that they do not care at all about men's issues.
Guy 1: Bro did you just see Think Before You Sleep's video on Roma Army?
Guy 2: Yeah, he exposed her as a female chameleon.
Female Chameleon by Red-Pill Bomber October 17, 2020

female exit

a phrase Phil Lester should have never said in a live stream trying to recover his previous saying "lady door".

Dad why did you do dat,
why
female exit by d-niellester January 24, 2018

Female cul-de-sac

The extended area inside a woman’s vagina where larger penis’ have stretched out an area around the cervix. The void area deep inside a woman’s vagina, where the bottom has become difficult to reach.
My large cock found a home in her female cul-de-sac. I knew my wife had taken a lover when she had suddenly developed a female cul-de-sac. I can’t hit bottom in women with large female cul-de-sac.
Female cul-de-sac by Dancerooster December 29, 2020
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026
Word of the Day on November 11, 2026

pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
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