The word "effers" was derived from some retarded kid by the name of Alor.
The word is usually used to express annoyance, disgust, surprise, anger, irritation, contempt, or disappointment...usually in a light-hearted manner.
(Lately, this word has been favorably used using squinted eyes, a scrunched nose, and a whispery, whiny voice, all while hunching the back slightly and is usually followed by the recipient with the traditional slow shake of the head, a stupid smirk and the low mutter of the word "geek.")
Effers Example 1:
Alor: "Hey Eyuel, Samora forgot Madden at home."
Eyuel: "Effferssss!"
Effers Example 2:
Melaku: "Hey you guys, my mom said we have to leave cuz its getting dark and she wont be able to find me so I have to take the ball now."
Aklil: "But it's only 5:30! You won't disappear until 9!"
Eyuel: "Effferssss!"
Effers Example 3:
Alor: "Hey Joseph, can I borrow a dollar?"
Joseph: "Alright."
Eyuel: "Effferssss!"
Alor and Joseph: "..the heck?"
Eyuel feels stupid.
A person who never responds to any text messages, never returns phone calls and ignores all attempts of contact via Facebook. A person who introduces you to the worst people you shall ever meet.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”