When you and your friend have been looking for something for a long time and you realize it's been in your pocket the whole time. So you hide it somewhere else real quick and pretend to find it there to avoid embarrassment.
"OH COME ON! I looked under the couch for my keys at least 10 times and you're telling me you just found them there? You just pulled a dirty Marlena on me didn't you?!"
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.