What tenny does, he talks so clearly and precisely and so directly. You can try to respond but your inferiority is too much so you become a punching bag for his verbal abuse.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.