When a person utters the phrase "Chaaaaaa!" to a male it psychologically robs the male of his manhood and dignity. Leaving him in a confused state. To regain one's manhood after being stolen by the word "Chaaaaaa!” one must repeat the word "Chaaaaaa!" to the person who originally spoke it.
Tom said "Chaaaaaa!" to Dave and left him robbed of his manhood. So Dave repeated the phrase to Tom and regained his manhood.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.