When someone punches you in the asshole. Not fisting, being buttercupped is not meant to be sexual in anyway. Only the pains of Satan are intended when someone buttercups another.
Jason: Dude why the fuck did you just buttercup me?!?
Michael: I buttercuped you because you stole my wallet you fuck!
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.