The female partner of a closeted bottom. She rules his butt, controlling whose allowed in and around him, in order to protect their public image.
"Hey man, did you see Tom's new girlfriend? She's so hot!"
.... "That arrogant bitch, she's just his butt queen."
.... "That arrogant bitch, she's just his butt queen."
by Andrew211 June 19, 2011
Get the butt queenmug. A closeted gay man's wife. It is her sole obligation to control the needs of her spouse's butt in order to keep his homosexuality at bay, so that it does not bring shame to the family.
by death proof June 06, 2011
Get the Butt Queenmug.