A phrase used twice a year when one requests something from his close male friends, who in turn cannot deny him based on the sole principal that you have been "boys" for a very long time. Request must be reasonable.
Friend #1 "Bro i just got into fight at the bar, i ran from the cops and I need a ride"
Friend #2 "Dude its 3 AM, i'm in bed"
Friend#1 "Bro, BOYCHECK!"
Friend#2 "Fuck, i'm coming"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.