Trenchball was originally for soldiers in trench warfare. It’s the act of two “heterosexual” men engaging in sexual acts within trenches, as there were no women around to help any urges that might distract the soldiers and impair them in battle.
However, now it’s used to explain why two “straight” guys are fucking
Edna: Do you know if Kevin is gay? I know he hooks up with Aaron sometimes
Craig: Nah, he’s not gay. That’s just some trench ball shit
Edna: Trench ball?
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”
Someone who is addicted to obtaining money and building wealth. A money addict and fanatic. Breadheads often work more than one full-time job, and some even participate in illicit activities to "obtain the bread".