TomD’ing

TomD’ing is a term used to describe someone who is being highly rude and offensive to a girl or her friends. If you are TomD’ing then everyone will try and avoid you simply because of how you treat others. No one likes a TomD’er

Friend - “oh my god he is being so rude to you!”

Girl - “yeah I know...”
Friend - “he is totally TomD’ing, it’s not even funny, I’m going to go over there and slap him!”