Stands for Totally Obedient Moron. A tool that is heavily dependent on direct instruction and information input/ A person whose ability to think independantly for the interest of their own survival is in other words, handicapped.
A general name for any man who uses his money to get sex and attention from women. Usually through gifts, cash, expensive dates, favors, rides, etc.
Like a John, except not with prostitutes.
More like a Mitch.
Trick
Off
Master
"Yea, T.O.M. over here, gave that stripper his whole paycheck last night! What a dumbass!"
"That girl doesn;t even like you, she's just playin you like T.O.M.!"
" What do you mean you want me to buy you some new clothes? I aint no T.O.M.!"