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a sofee is an amazing person. a sofee is someone who is so confident and carries themselves in such a way that looks like she has everything under control. a sofee is someone who’s been through a lot but still puts on her pretty little smile and acts like everything’s ok. a sofee is a writer. a sofee is someone who doesn’t just listen to the music, but listens to the lyrics. if she shows you a song, it relates to her situation. a sofee is someone who is just a good a listener as they are a talker. a sofee is someone who fantasizes a lot. a sofee is one of the most outgoing people you will ever meet, someone who is brave enough to speak anything that comes on her mind in this world of people who can only pretend to be someone they’re not. and if you do ever find yourself a sofee, dear god, don’t ever let her go.
“omg did you see that girl? she had to be a sofee.”
sofee by sofialili July 16, 2019
thats fucking dope like sofles
sofles by bomber5 March 3, 2008
Me and Gregg just took some SOfies! Aren't we adorbs!
SOfies by Dcchik23 April 20, 2015

sofres special 

To pleasure oneself with the phone whilst running data/reports.
The young placement alleviated her boredom with a sofres special.
sofres special by Peter 89 July 5, 2006

Sofeenish 

The girl in my class was behaving extremely sofeenish
Sofeenish by ColdheartedWH September 21, 2021

pop at its softest core 

And people actually think they're rock!
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WhimZ by WhimZ! November 5, 2026
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Frothability 

The measure of an emotional and over zealous consumer in an upwardly charging market, also known as a bull market. It's characterized by rising asset prices, increased investor confidence, and favorable growth in the markets, bro.
The frothability was evident as over-zealous consumers eagerly engaged in bidding wars, driving property prices to unsustainable levels reminiscent of previous speculative bubbles.
Frothability by cptn.kagaroo1 January 26, 2024
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026
Word of the Day on November 11, 2026

pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
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