Soft era 

An era in which black women choose not to take up masculine qualities nor show them as they’ve been doing for decades to replace men that should have been there helping them. Becoming more feminine; To seek men who will allow for their femininity to show instead of being hard; Becoming defenseless.

“I’m tired of having to go through drama to show him I’m the one. I need a man to help me because I’m trying to exude my women qualities Instead of taking care of everything by myself. I’m in my soft era chile”

Soft era by Talikatalks June 26, 2023

SofT Era 

Extreme flopping, top players joining up together, Not playing a full season cause of load management

Todays players in the sofT era look like a bunch of gamers and electricians

SofT Era by 1990sicc April 12, 2021

Soft girl era 

An era in which a female chooses to only have kind, loving, gentle and supportive people in her life. It is a time where she makes an effort to live in peace, happiness, and calmness.

I am in my soft girl era

Soft girl era by Lorenlolly June 13, 2023

Soft Girl Era 

1. A phrase used by masculine women to state their transition to being a feminine woman.

2. One of the final phases of a thot/city girl’s cycle, where she realizes she’s nearing 30+ and is trying to reform her ‘ho phase’ with ‘dating with a purpose’ by being more feminine.

Girl 1: Girl let’s go twerk on top of that car.

Girl 2: No, girl, I’m searching for a good man now, I’m in my soft girl era.

Soft Girl Era by Facts Kellerman December 3, 2022

soft boi era 

The 1950’s

Me: I LOVE THE 50s!!!

Person: why?
Me: BECAUSE ITS THE SOFT BOI ERA

soft boi era by ShawnXmarina April 9, 2019

Soft Stud Era 

The era in which studs/masculine presenting women/dominant women allow themselves to be adorned in their own softness. The era in which they are allowed to identify and full engulf themselves in both feminine and masculine energy.

Girl she is living in her soft stud era, unbothered by the normal standards of what it takes to be a masculine woman!

Soft Stud Era by Kimberly Kne’Cole January 10, 2024

soft guy era 

A man who does not want to be the provider but wants to be provided for. He wants a women who will go out and work and make a 6 figure check while he stays at home comfortably and cleans, cooks, and takes care of the kids.

Boy I ain’t workin no more I’m in my soft guy era I’ll let my girl take care of the bills

soft guy era by Mo.the.silwadi April 9, 2024