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Shame Cave 

A place one goes after performing an embarrassing or dishonorable act.

Such a disgraceful event may include kissing eight members of the same rugby team within 4 days or dropping a religious ornament on a balcony.

The length of time spent in the shame cave may depend on the prosecutor, who can be said to be in the blame cave.
Goose: "As if you've cheated on your girlfriend, you are so in the shame cave!"
Maverick: "I'm not the only one who homewrecked myself by sharking, get out of your righteous blame cave!"
Shame Cave by Tour Virgin September 6, 2012

shame cave 

The female genitalia. The opposite of the male power stick.
I totally tore up that hooker's shame cave.
shame cave by Mega Oper May 2, 2008

cave and shave 

The act of shaving one's head after admitting the futility of attempting a combover or similar baldness-concealing measure.
I'm sure glad Steve decided to cave and shave. That combover was getting ridiculous!
cave and shave by Furter April 20, 2006

Shake the money tree in a wine cave 

Fancy political fundraisers for rich donors. In 2019 photos surfaced in which Pete Buttigieg, mayor of South Bend, IN was seated with rich donors in a Napa valley wine cave for a fundraising event. During Dec. 2019 debate, Elizabeth Warren attacked Buttigieg for appealing to rich donors instead of grassroots supporters by using this imagery. A few minute later, Andrew Yang stated his campaign reform policy would increase women and minority elected to offices around the country because "they don't have to shake the money tree in a wine cave", gesturing to Buttigieg.
You will have many many more women run for office because they don't have to shake the money tree in a wine cave.

Shamecakes

Noun: Any action that brings a loss in respect or credibility among peers or family members.
-Food made by a person who has just recently lost respect for you
Guy1: Dude, Mr. Morry caught us drinking last night.
Guy2: What did he do? Was he angry?
Guy1: We can tell he was disappointed in us cuz he made us shamecakes in the morning
Shamecakes by Jate77q March 2, 2010

shamecaving 

The act of plundering one's butthole to the point of ecstacy.
Hey Robert, your wife and I indulged in a spot of Shamecaving. It was real nice like.
shamecaving by Fluffy Bunnyfeet July 16, 2022
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Frothability 

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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
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