a man who fits these descriptions
1. it would be no surprise if he was a closet homosexual 2. prone to give long, repetitive speeches
3. has a large database of metaphors and proberbs
4. some how he manages to be a badass
so...
it is someone who seems so unlikely to be awesome, but because he is so lame, he is awesome
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.