The phrase originated with the term 'butt raped' to describe the feeling of getting screwed on a deal. Then, it was 'butt raped with no KY jelly,' (sex lubricant) which then turned into just 'No KY'
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.