When a childish woman hasn't got the maturity to communicate her feelings/needs/desires, and expects men to have the "confidence" to mindread those sexual desires she hides from him.
Often used as a defense mechanism by such women who foolishly assume that a man's inaction means his lack of attraction.
Katerina: I told him that I was a Christian conservative, and he actually believed that good girl façade I presented? I'm horny, and he's not man enough to see it.
Susan: He's probably "gay". Dump his loser ass before he gets the chance to dump you!
Katerina: OMG you're so right! I wanted to rip his clothes off. But if he cannot understand that I CLEARLY that my straw was pointed in his general direction when we were out last night, I guess it's just not meant to be. NO SPARK!!!
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)