The act of existing as a lesbian while doing something explicitly lesbian. A lesbian thinking about another girl she has a crush on would be lesbianing. Also, a lesbian kissing her girlfriend would be lesbianing.
Those twolesbians just moved in together after the second date. They're lesbianing so hard.
When a straight woman is enticed into loving a member of the same sex. Usually through some wild experience or situation.
Angelina Jolie apparently causes the lesbianing of many women. Another is Sienna Guillory. In her breakout role as Jill Valentine in Resident Evil: Apocalypse (2004), she effectively turned a good amount of the straight female population into lesbians.
Can be used to describe homosexual men becoming straight too. The reason why there is no "gaying" or "heterosexualing" is because this phenomenon has mainly occured among women. This is why lesbianing has its cross-use applied to homosexual men becoming male.
"Sienna Guillory is a hotfox. I kept drooling in the theatre while watching Apocalypse" - Former Heterosexual Woman
When a lesbian chooses to adopt the opinions of and behave like toxic men: i.e. aggressively compete and dominate others
devalue women, and engaging in wanton violence.
Liz’s wife Piper has acute toxic lesbianinity. Every time we play golf with them Piper gets so angry if she’s losing, blames it on Liz, and starts throwing her clubs.