Common term for someone who, although good intentioned, lacks the personality trait known as fun. Spontaneous things scare them and any sign of trouble usually results in hours of sci fi gaming and/or hibernation. A law dawg would rather read history books than to participate in parties, sexual encounters, or sporting events.
"Dude, that was a raging party last night...where did Dan go?"
"He thought the cops were going to bust it so he locked himself in the bathroom with Mein Comf"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.