Killing with kindness is the act of treating rude behavior with kind behavior.
It is also often used by Kevin Spacey’s fans since he uploaded that brilliant KTWK video on 24th of December, 2019.
"The next time someone does something you don’t like, you can go on the attack. But you can also hold your fire and do the unexpected, you can (KTWK) kill them with kindness."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.