It is when you and one of your friends goes up to each side of an old person and hits hips and shoulders at the same time. If it was a successful Kaboshki the old person will be lying there with broken hips and shoulders without the ability to move. You can optionally do it with three persons, where the last person hits the tailbone and spine.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.