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In your feelings 

1. When someone gets their feelings hurt due to the words or actions of another. Often times resulting in that person being overly emotional and dramatic. The incident may seem extremely significant to the person in question while seeming insignificant to those around him/her.

2. When someone cares too much about someone who does not feel as strongly about them.
1. Kianna is over there pouting because Shaundra is trippin & snapped at Kianna for being in her way.

Kianna, why are you all in your feelings? You know how Shaundra be trippin.

2. David is in a bad mood because his girl didn't call him last night.

Bro, why you all in your feelings, you know you just met that girl last weekend.
In your feelings by Msgetitright December 29, 2016

In your feelings 

Hym “Oooooh. Ok. You’re in your feelings now. You weren’t in your feeling when you were using every interaction with me for the sole purpose of my mockery and derision though were you? Noooo you weren’t. Am I supposed to feel bad for you? I don’t. No one made you open you mouth crooked and whoever told you to do what you’re doing to me is to blame for how you’re feeling right now. Not me. Now shut the fuck up I’m trying to sleep.”
In your feelings by Hym Iam November 3, 2022

all up in your feelings 

being extremely emotionally. others may think you are being emotionally for no reason or overreacting to a situation. constant complaining
mom: you always leave the door open, leave your shoes by the door and i'm sick of it. you are so ungrateful me" stop being all up in your feelings

Keep your feelings in your purse 

Generally used derogatorially towards women who sell their body. Her pimp will tell her to keep her feelings in her purse when she isn't focusing on making money. Rather, she is more focused on baby daddy drama or other people's business.
Stop trippin girl! We'd make better money if you'd keep your feelings in your purse.

Greasy feeling in your arse

That feeling one gets after being fucked up the arse.
"So. You woke up with that greasy feeling in your arse and $100 in your hand, eh? Well, that's 'Manor Decadent' for you!
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
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Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
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Northstarring

Finding your way back to the truth by fixing on one verified fact and working out from there, the way you navigate by the North Star when everything around you is spinning.
Rumours were flying everywhere, so she went northstarring — one checked fact at a time.
Northstarring by Light Bearer October 22, 2026
Word of the Day on October 23, 2026
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