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soft harem 

A rotation of women maintained by an uncommitted man. "Soft" because the women do not typically know about each other.
Rob was tiring of the bar scene and one-night stands, so he refocussed on putting together a soft harem.
soft harem by RobPnB February 12, 2013
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Haremfucker249 

Haremfucker249 is the canon name of the Persona 5, the Persona 5 royal and of the Persona 5 Strikers protagonist.
It's me, your leader: Haremfucker249!
Haremfucker249 by Yomamaxd April 22, 2021

Anti-Harem

It's usually in the form of a Reverse Harem, but it can also be used in regular harems.
But instead of all the love interests loving the protagonist, everyone hates the protagonist!

Over time the hate turns to love.

Typically used in fanfictions.
reverse harem, harem, anti-harem, anti harem,
Anti-Harem by ceracries July 22, 2020

reverse harem 

A genre in manga and anime where a single (often ordinary) girl is liked and followed by a bunch of handsome men (3 or more) who are all madly in love with her. The girl often cannot pick which guy she should go out with and remains indecisive.

The male version of this is harem
Ouran high school host club and the wallflower are reverse harem manga/anime.
reverse harem by Hespia Klarerin December 4, 2010
A genre in anime and manga that every weeb indeed watches, however it is never discussed among fellow weebs.

A harem is essentially when there is a boy who is bombarded by a bevy girls presenting various physiques. The girls in the harem are all attracted to the boy and often fight over his affection. A Harem can be metaphorically describes as a rooster in a henhouse.
Max: Yo, have you seen that new harem that just got added to crunchyroll?

Finn: *fucks right off*
Harem by thefountofallknowledge October 30, 2019

harem king 

A man who is surrounded by girls but can never choose which one to marry or which one to be his girlfriend. Typically is a male who goes to a Japanese school and either is awesomely smart, extremely kind, or just a badass.
Player 1: Hey dude, is it just me or does {Kirito} have a lot of babes with him?
Player 2: Yes he does, he has now been crowned the Harem King of {Sword Art Online}
Player 1: Aw man, how do I become a Harem King now?
Player 2: You either do everything you can to attract girls or become a {Kirito}.
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Nickname given to bales of marijuana thrown overboard or out of airplanes. Origin is reportedly from members of the US Coast Guard in the area of Southern Florida.
"Base we've got some square groupers floating outside of Miami harbor."
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"Hey, do you know that girl Sally?"

"Yeah, she's kind of annoying. All she ever talks about it ballet."

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"I can't, I have dance."
"You're such a Bunhead."

"Yeah... I know."
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trucker's tan 

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I had a trucker's tan after driving for 10 straight hours on a sunny day.
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Origin of the word is unknown. Started sometime in World War 2. Given the typical evolution of British slang, could easily have started because what these experts did was confusing or “baffling” to the common person.
According to the boffins downstairs, the murderer used a serrated blade.
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