Skip to main content
A gay male top in his late 20's early 30's who prefers sex with guys who are 18 or 19. Usually likes being the older one who is independent and has more experience.

Cougay's will show their young bottoms a good time and then take advantage of their energy and flexibility in bed. They tend to be dominant and aggressive, and when it comes down to it, put out or get out.
Did you hear that Jon has become a total CouGay? He goes around with college freshmen shows them a good time then bangs the poor kids till their sore.
CouGay by Aximuthial October 18, 2008
Urban Dictionary Merch
Your favorite words on things you can wear, drink from, read, or give to a friend.
The Urban Dictionary Store sells gifts you’ll have to explain.
An older gay man around age 50-80* (can be as young as 30 but they arent as common) who looks to pick up younger men, they generally prefer 18 - 27 year old guys but when on the prowl any age will do. They show no mercy in their pursuit. They will quickly look you up and down then move in for the kill heading straight for the crotch.

When they are on the prowl they don't take no for an answer. Pepper spray can be a good repellent against cougays.
They travel alone as well as in packs.

* Not all men in this age group are Cougays

See also Couger for the female equivalent
Person 1 says: hey man im gonna go to the bar for a drink.
Person 2 says: ok
(Cougay spots the guy now all alone looks him up and down and goes in for the kill)
Cougay: (while groaping and drooling)You can come back to my place if you like
Cougay by Frihet April 19, 2009
Similar to Cougar, but an older gay man who frequents clubs seeking to score with a much younger man.
"That new Cougay you met last weekend was so much fun -we all played drinking games usng his Waterford crystal glasses to celebrate him paying off his 30 year mortgage"

or

"Lets go to Palm Springs this weekend to find some blue haired Cougays to put us up, buy us drinks, and party"
cougay by Davundawunda July 16, 2009
An older gentleman who regularly dates younger men. Generally attractive and with plenty of disposable income the cougay often dates younger attractive males.
50 looks good on Mark, he always has some young 20 something on his arm...what a cougay!
Cougay by SouthPawJS August 27, 2018

Carbondale Cougar 

A 30+ year old female of the Carbondale Area noted for overly tanned skin, whose recently crumbled long-term relationship has caused extreme whorish behavior, including banging their employees, getting people they have banged jobs with them, and generally acting like a typical bar fly slut. They also have an insatiable craving for Carbondale Clam Chowder.
Watercooler discussion at work:

Dude 1: "Yo, did you see how slutty Sally's dressed today?"
Dude 2: "Yeah, I mean, what the fuck is her deal anymore? She totally went fuck-crazy after she got power-dumped by that crack dealer she was shacked up with."
Dude 1: "Oh hell yeah. I'm gonna take her out for a drink after work. I'm gonna give that Carbondale Cougar the old Scranton Snowplow."
Carbondale Cougar by Ass Reaper January 9, 2009

booger sugar cougar 

This is a mature woman aka MILF who is welcoming to men who bring drugs to her.
Mandy is a booger sugar cougar who loves men with coke!
booger sugar cougar by I, Wreckerrr December 8, 2020

Cougar Death Strike 

Cougar death strike occurs when an older woman (cougar) pounces upon her unsuspecting toyboy and mauls him in an erotic and sensual way. Often the toyboy is pinned to the floor in this process. Can result in the a horrific number of lovebites to the chest and neck.
Emily: *cougar death strikes*

Harry: ahhhh im sorry ill be good dont eat me D:
More from Urban Dictionary
Basically the same meaning as ate.
x:"Girl your fit chewed today!"
Chewed by iod1o March 30, 2022
Word of the Day on October 19, 2026

Blue Movie 

A pornographic film.

The use of the word "blue" to refer to sexually explicit content was first recorded in Scotland in 1824. "Blue" meant "lewd" because prostitutes dressed in blue gowns.
I found your stash of blue movies under your bed.
Blue Movie by Shayde79 January 20, 2011
Word of the Day on October 18, 2026

fache-couture 

French slang, which translated, means "bull's fashion" but basically equates to "hyper trendy" or overly trendy. Used when a person wishes to express distaste at the latest fashion trend/fad, because it seems that everyone has a certain item of clothing or is wearing it. This term is most frequently heard in Paris but is slowly spreading to other parts of France.
1. That Burberry scarf is so fache-couture.
2. That purple American Apparel hoodie is so fache-couture.
fache-couture by bkgmh46x0x March 18, 2008
Word of the Day on October 17, 2026
Load more