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A gay male top in his late 20's early 30's who prefers sex with guys who are 18 or 19. Usually likes being the older one who is independent and has more experience.

Cougay's will show their young bottoms a good time and then take advantage of their energy and flexibility in bed. They tend to be dominant and aggressive, and when it comes down to it, put out or get out.
Did you hear that Jon has become a total CouGay? He goes around with college freshmen shows them a good time then bangs the poor kids till their sore.
by Aximuthial August 28, 2008
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An older gay man around age 50-80* (can be as young as 30 but they arent as common) who looks to pick up younger men, they generally prefer 18 - 27 year old guys but when on the prowl any age will do. They show no mercy in their pursuit. They will quickly look you up and down then move in for the kill heading straight for the crotch.

When they are on the prowl they don't take no for an answer. Pepper spray can be a good repellent against cougays.
They travel alone as well as in packs.

* Not all men in this age group are Cougays

See also Couger for the female equivalent

Person 1 says: hey man im gonna go to the bar for a drink.
Person 2 says: ok
(Cougay spots the guy now all alone looks him up and down and goes in for the kill)
Cougay: (while groaping and drooling)You can come back to my place if you like
by Frihet April 19, 2009
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Similar to Cougar, but an older gay man who frequents clubs seeking to score with a much younger man.
"That new Cougay you met last weekend was so much fun -we all played drinking games usng his Waterford crystal glasses to celebrate him paying off his 30 year mortgage"


"Lets go to Palm Springs this weekend to find some blue haired Cougays to put us up, buy us drinks, and party"
by Davundawunda July 16, 2009
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