Bicariously 

Shading a person through 3rd party. In the person face.

Telling A lady across from me how I hate her red shoes bicariously through my friends. And the lady across from us has on red shoes and can hear us shading her red shoes.

Bicariously by Shugga February 17, 2019

living bicariously 

Experiencing intimacy with a person of the same sex through someone else. Note that the person whom you are living bicariously through can be of either sex.

Bob: Hey John, why are you so close to Tina since she's been dating Rob? She barely even has time for you since she and Rob bang all the time.
John: Believe it or not, I find myself really attracted to Bob, and I'm living bicariously through Tina.
Bob: Bro....

living bicariously by weyus June 5, 2018

Bicuriouslyromantic 

Thinking you may be Being attracted to both sex's in a non sexual way as in may participate in an intimate relationship for example kissing but without sexual aspects

John: i think i like you

Jacoby:Oh are you gay or bi

john: kind of

Jacoby:what do you mean

John:well i don't want to have sex and i have never had a same sex relationship

Jacoby:ah you must be bicuriouslyromantic

Bicuriouslyromantic by Sukotto watoson January 3, 2011

Bicarious 

Exploring bisexual fantasies and emotions through the experiences, feelings and actions of another person.

A fusion of the words vicarious and bicurious.

Kevin, do you mind kissing Steve so that I can live bicariously through you.

After seeing the strong shirtless men embrace, I felt bicarious excitement coursing through my penis.

Bicarious by davakon1 March 11, 2020

Vicariously vacationing 

when co-worker overshares about all their enjoyable, fun, adventurous escapades while on vacation, while you are stuck at work, dreaming of you, yourself one day leaving the office to go on vacation.

Todd: If you could get that email out by 9 a.m., that would be great. By the way, I’m on a boat right now watching killer whales! So exciting, right?!!

Nicole: Sure, Todd. Sounds great. Sure wish I could stop vicariously vacationing through you and go to Fiji!

Vicariously vacationing by pr maven August 17, 2010

bicarious 

Similar to vicarious, but for those who prefer to use slang and sound ghetto

the evil step mother lived bicariously through her 16 year old step daughter

bicarious by Jocelyn Ariana September 10, 2008

vicariously traumatized

When you didn’t go through a trauma but someone close to you did, so you are traumatized because they trauma dumped on you.

This relates to trauma being a factor of shock or unexpected outcomes, when things are not seen coming, they take more tact to adapt to.

This may or may not relate to people being in narcissistic states after going through a traumatic event initially.

See example:

Prom is a trap! I heard about Cindy getting dumped after giving up her v-card so I’ll be waiting until marriage, I’m vicariously traumatized!

vicariously traumatized by anonymous December 6, 2025