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When a female is looking for a man to only take care of her kids, pay her bills, and buy her materialistic items.
Peter: "Hey, I heard you were talking to Sarah? What's up with that?"
John: "We have been for a while now. But I feel I'm always getting stuck with her kids or paying for a lot of things that aren't my problem."

Peter: "I'd drop her ass. Sounds like she's benefishing."
by Babyloks March 31, 2015
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