Eccentric rowing president who got with the women's captain of the boat club. Further defined as an absolute shagger, having got with a girl at every rowing curry so far this year. Has a massive hard spot for Robert Jones of Walesland, and wants to fight to the death with a certain American Vice-captain, fully naked and oiled up. That my friends, is the De Jager way.
Charlotte: Did you see el presidente in staircase 12 with another girl last night??
Hope: Of course! That's just how Ben De Jager does it
Charlotte: Oh yeah, don't we both know it!!
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.