A Tribe Called Quest used the term bonita applebum to describe a woman whose quest in life is to make guys feel like men, by putting them on. These bonita applebums are the best of both worlds by being passive and authoritive
An actual song title by A Tribe Called Quest. "Bonita Applebum" refers to a woman/lady/girl with a nice ass, or simply refers to a nice booty (usually a large/round apple-shaped one!)