When you ask a girl for her number and she gives you directions to her bedroom door.
Refers to the behavior attached to the belief that women need to act overly aggressive and sexual in order to attract men (scary, pole-dancing, toys-in-the-drawer assertiveness). A term coined by Glamour magazine's "Jake".
"Before I even got her name she went Sexy 9.0 and started tearing her clothes off."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.