pick-me

A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like

Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)

Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"

pick-me by f0reverxternally October 21, 2025

Pick Me

The term "Pick-Me girl" is a derogatory word for women used by female incels and radical left extremists, who force their perceived hypocrisy towards them, while always thinking they're right and never wrong, especially regarding social issues like equality and feminism.
Most of the women are unhappy and single who are generelly irresponsible for their own actions and uncapable of taking accountability towards their own actions.

Did She pick you yet?
Pick me, choose me, love me
Pick me girl"

Pick Me by JosephineK November 8, 2025

Pick-Me

A girl who pretends to be somebody she's not solely to gain attention from other people, usually guys.

Jenna is such a pick-me girl, she's always trying to be different.
(Jenna was just a random name, I'm not referring to anybody.)

Pick-Me by thoralina December 12, 2025

Pick-me

A person that acts a certain way to try and get approval from specific groups; usually “niche”.

Person 1: “Oh man, do you know TX2?”
Person 2: “Yeah, but I dont listen to him. Hes such a pick-me.”
Person 1: “He totally is.”

Pick-me by wombat_feeder January 3, 2026

pick and chewse

Actually, dat's backwards --- first you "choose" what to "chew", and THEN you pick yer teeth AFTERWARDS.

If yer toothbrush isn't handy at a particular time, you will want to "pick and chewse" what you munch on so dat you don't get any annoying fibers stuck between yer teeth.

pick and chewse by QuacksO January 11, 2026

Pick a plot

An expression advising someone to pick a grave plot. Usually used if someone is likely going to die.

Person 1: I think I’m good to drive home.
Person 2: Pick a plot before you do. You’re way too drunk to drive.

Pick a plot by The Hangman's Trick January 16, 2026

Pick me

When a man/woman is seeking validation from other people for self esteem

That girl has been a pick me to those boys
That guy is trying to get those girls attention-he is such a pick me

Pick me by Not_abitch January 28, 2026