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Xenogender

Xenogenders, or xenoidentities, are identities/genders based off of concepts, characters, objects, animals, etc. Usually neurodivergent people use these labels (not all do!) but others can as well.

It’s usually used to help explain your interests, how you’re like, how your gender feels like, what your gender feels connected to, etc.

These are NOT intended to mock any community, especially not the trans nor the nonbinary.

Just because someone’s xenogender doesn’t mean they are transphobic or they identify as what the xenogender is connected to. For example, a xenogender can be froggender, and can be used to describe the connection between frogs and your gender, or the way you may have a froglike personality, but froggenders most likely don’t identify as a frog, hence why xenogender/xenoidentity isn’t kinning.

Xenogenders or xenoidentities are part of LGBTQIAX+. They may not always be treated as genders, but they are still valid within the community. You can also use these for fun!

Written by a transgender!
Someone: hello I use xenogenders too! I use stargender and buggender.
Someone else: that’s cool, I don’t understand xenogenders but I respect you.
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Xenogender

A severe case of mental retardation in which the person begins identifying as objects, stars, animals, windows, pubic hair, you name it! Created to comfort the neurodivergent LGBBQ+ members.
Alissa is heroingender because she feels a deep, profound connection to diacetylmorphine, which is her xenogender
by ProteinSheykh January 2, 2025
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Xenogender sexual

When you are attracted to people who identify as xenogender
Person 1 "I'm xenogender sexual."

Person 2 "What does that mean?"

Person 1 "It means people who identify as xenogender turn me on."

Person 2 "I support you."
by Grunch is life May 13, 2022
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Xenogenderphobic

Also known as Xenophobic (from people who have no idea what Xenophobic actually means) are people who didn't call Dani by too/tooth (those are actual pronouns someone asked me to call them)
also if you are xenogenderphobic you are chad 👍
Person A: I'm Xenogenderphobic
Person B: Same
Dani: What are you guys talking abo-
Person A and Person B: Stfu tooth
by Cassidyxox January 12, 2023
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xenogenderphobic

person 1: im xenogenderphobic

person 2: same
by yag4ased February 3, 2022
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xenogenderphobic

Xenogenderphobic people are people who can’t grasp the idea of someone identify as something, they usually say ‘you can make gender up’ even though you literally can as gender is a social construct. If you’re like this get off of your ass and stop sobbing about how people identify and get a life.
person 1:i’m xenogenderphobic
person 2: Stop caring about how people identify you lowlife scum
by yumawashere March 23, 2022
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Xenogenders

Xenogender is defined as "a gender that cannot be contained by human understandings of gender; more concerned with crafting other methods of gender categorization and hierarchy such as those relating to animals, plants, or other creatures/things". Xenogender individuals may use ideas and identities outside of the gender binary to describe themselves and avoid binary gendered identifiers, such as using only their first name or the name of an animal. They may feel they cannot place a label on themselves, or feel as though they lack the terms to fully express their gender or identity, something that derives from a lexical gap. The term "xenogender" itself was designed to help fill the lexical gap by using terms not typically associated with gender or describing gender with metaphors. Since it is a gender identity that is outside the binary concepts of masculinity and femininity, xenogender is a non-binary identity.
Person one - "Are you a boy or a girl?"
Person 2 - "Actually I use xenogenders as labels!"
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