Love is what the Bible says you are to do.
Mark 12:30-31 New King James Version (NKJV)
30 And you shall love the Lord your God with all
your heart, with all
your soul, with all
your mind, and with all your strength.’a This is the first commandment.b 31 And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’c There is no other commandment greater than these.”
Love is NOT love if someone is telling you that somebody else loves you.