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Femme Domme

A dominant woman; part of the bdsm spectrum; aka Femdom is short for female domination; Domme is a female Domina, Dominatrix, there are many variations in semantics
Femdom is the practice of female domination; the performance artist Herself is known as the Femme Domme.
by Captiv8ing May 21, 2018
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femboy

A person who is biologically male, but who presents in a feminine way, for example by wearing feminine clothing, feminine hairstyles and/or make-up.

A femboy is similar to a crossdresser, in that they both present in a feminine way. But to a crossdresser this is seen as a special activity, which he only takes part in in certain situations, while a femboy presents this way as part of his personal style and presents this way in daily life.

The term 'femboy' refers only to an esthetic and not to a gender identity. Most femboys still identify as male, though others identify as genderqueer or even as female. Due to the word 'boy' in the name, it is usually only used for young people, typically under the age of 30.
I've started wearing nail polish. I really like this femboy look.

I saw Flynn wear a dress yesterday. Does he identify as a woman now? - No, he's just a femboy.
by birthofalotus July 29, 2020
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Femboy

A Femboy is a man or a boy (usually below 40) that dress, and live in the traditional lifestyle of a Woman. They are not necessarily trans, cross-dressers, or sissies, but men and boys who simply choose to live that lifestyle. On the social side, they are happy, friendly, funny, and talented at music and art.
John: My friend Robert is a Femboy. He is so fun and creative and I wish more people would love him.
by femboysmatter September 14, 2020
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Submissive Femboy Day

Submissive femboy Day is on April 10th to celebrate submissive femboys. It is considered second best day of the year behind dominant femboy day. Now is the day to hang out with your submissive femboys and give them "special" attention ;).
Now that it is Submissive Femboy Day I can get all the "special" attention I need!
by SummerHome April 10, 2022
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femme

Before I say anything I would like to say that definitions like this one, can be a very sensitive matter for some people. I am a queer woman myself, and this is what being a femme means to me. I hope that my point can come across well.

Mostly used to describe lesbians, a femme can be any person who identifies as a woman and likes girls. A femme embraces femininity. This could be in the way she presents herself, but it also means being a confident and independent woman. It has more meaning to it than appearances. Loving the color pink isn’t just a “girly” thing. Those stereotypes were made to make women seem soft, and because women don’t want to commit to that idea, they become hateful towards themselves, forcing themselves to reject the idea of being a confident woman, and have internal misogyny. Being femme is being assertive, but not conforming to those ideas. Also spelled fem, the stereotype of typically feminine wlw, are that in sexual relations they are typically submissive, “the bottom”, or “a pillow princess”. This is not true, an when you think about it, it is mysoginistic in the way that people see traditional feminine things as delicate and in a relationship, weak, as bottoms tend to be portrayed as. (being submissive does not mean you are weak, it is merely another harmful idea) Being femme doesn’t mean that you have to date a masculine woman or a butch either, most happy wlw couples do not conform to these ideas nor to the idea of one dominant and one submissive.
“I hooked up with Kassandra the other night, don’t be fooled by her femme looks, she’s a total top.”
by Vintage Violetta November 8, 2020
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Femboys Matter

Because we do. We have been judged and shamed countless times, and it often goes unnoticed.
Harry was beat up at school today for wearing a dress. Femboys Matter.
by femboysmatter September 14, 2020
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Femlock

A computer-controlled automobile locking system which simultaneously locks all four doors of the vehicle regardless of the driver's preference, in theory to frustrate the forcible removal and abduction of female occupants, and then leaves them locked after the driver exists.
Male Driver struggling to open his locked reardoor while balancing his Menards merchandise: Damn Femlocks! I thought thought that door was open; I sure as Hell didn't lock it!
by Fartacus III June 19, 2011
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