The feeling of thirsting for approval, often when you outsource your self-worth to those around you, like parents or peers.
She kept chasing after likes on social media, seeking validation instead of trusting her own abilities.
by Emotional Cruiser September 21, 2025
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Get the Valid as nuts mug.Key traits of a validation vampire:
• Constant need for praise and attention
• Self-focused; conversations center on their needs
• Frequent complaining and victimhood
• Little emotional reciprocity
• Blames others for their problems
• Leaves others feeling drained
How they drain energy:
• People-pleasing as a way to earn validation
• Creating drama or crises to attract attention
• Relying on others for continuous emotional reassurance
• Constant need for praise and attention
• Self-focused; conversations center on their needs
• Frequent complaining and victimhood
• Little emotional reciprocity
• Blames others for their problems
• Leaves others feeling drained
How they drain energy:
• People-pleasing as a way to earn validation
• Creating drama or crises to attract attention
• Relying on others for continuous emotional reassurance
She avoids spending too much time with him because he turns every interaction into an opportunity to feed his inner validation vampire.
by Chiefee42 November 8, 2025
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