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Vicariousity

vi•cari•ousity

Noun

A sentimental longing or wistful affection for a life, experienced in the imagination through the feelings or actions of another person that never existed.
“I have been overcome with vicariousity”
by Vicariousity_ February 24, 2025
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vicariously traumatized

When you didn’t go through a trauma but someone close to you did, so you are traumatized because they trauma dumped on you.

This relates to trauma being a factor of shock or unexpected outcomes, when things are not seen coming, they take more tact to adapt to.

This may or may not relate to people being in narcissistic states after going through a traumatic event initially.

See example:
Prom is a trap! I heard about Cindy getting dumped after giving up her v-card so I’ll be waiting until marriage, I’m vicariously traumatized!
by anonymous December 6, 2025
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vicariously traumatized

When you didn’t go through a traumatic event first hand, but someone close to you did and they trauma dumped on you, so now you’re in fear of the same thing happening to you.

This relates to how unexpected outcomes require more tact to recover from than outcomes we prepare for.

This may or may not be related to the narcissist nature the brain is left in from an initial traumatic event- sort of like a ripple impact of trauma until one transmutes the cycle
Prom is a trap! Ever since I heard Cindy got dumped after giving up her v-card I’ll be waiting until marriage, I'm vicariously traumatized!
by sound recollection December 6, 2025
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Lives vicaratly

A woman who measures her husbands love by the size of the diamond she receives.
Jen lives Vicaratly when she sees her sister in law receive a three carat diamond.
by Moxie mox February 11, 2012
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Dirty Vicar

Spaffing on your birds tits and declaring yourself a Dirty Vicar.
Last night I gave my Mrs a Dirty Vicar.
by Dirty Vicar1 February 29, 2024
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word with the vicar

It means you are having a poo.. taking a dump..
I'll be right back.. I'm just going to have a word with the vicar..
by Hitchmiester February 27, 2015
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tea with the vicar

When you bake a giant donut and slowly insert it into your anus in front of a crowd, prompting calls of "Jesus Christ" and "oh my god"
In other news, I baked a giant doughnut and had tea with the vicar.

*not euphemism
by Veiga February 24, 2022
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