Its when the giver cups the hands around the takers butthole and breaths hot air directly on the rim creating a sauna like experience for the takers anus.
"Dude, Stella came over later last night and gave me the hottest rim steamer! It was like only my butthole was in a sauna!"
by hazelNUTZ March 1, 2015

Complaining vociferously about a wrong being done to you whilst casually committing said wrong yourself with no awareness.
by lennydan January 20, 2011

Holding a press conference on ESPN to announce that you are signing with the Miami Heat and not the Cleavland Cavaliers. Figuratively defecating on the city of Cleavland.
by Ray Ray Jefferson July 10, 2010

taking s dump in a hole drilled in the ice while your buddies are fishing in the hole next to you poopcrapturdfishingice fishing
dude i had to poop so bad on the lake i dropped a minnesota steamer while my buddy reeled in a walleye
by mark koran November 16, 2006

The grueling act of straining to push out an impacted bowel movement. To take a very huge, painful shit.
by Matt Eros November 9, 2007

I was feeling really gassy while my boyfriend and I were spooning in bed. I accidentally let a fart slip and I gave him a smelly ball steamer.
by SmuglyRose December 10, 2021

Momma was so turned on that her bean steamer was in full effect and couldn't wait for her lover's hot tongue.
by Eaton Holgoode November 15, 2015
