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a. When a man and woman grow in graced friendship with the intention and possibility of Dating.
b. It is the Pre-Dating phase, when one is unsure what to call their relationship
c. Getting to know each other before Dating

Name is derived from FRiendship+dATING = FRATING
1. Joe and Mariam frated for couple of months before they started dating.

2. I am sorry I can't go out with you because Maggie and I are frating.

3. I am going on a frate night with Anna this friday night at the Lakeshore.

4. Sam and Delia frated for few weeks, but they realized it was not going to work out between them because he realized she was quite manipulative.
Frating by Nappie D August 30, 2013
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The term used to describe the relationship between two friends, who like each other MORE than friends, but aren't quite to the dating stage yet.

NOT friends with benefits.
"Hey, are those two dating?" -Lizzie

"Not yet. Right now they're just frating." -Justine
frating by lovebug101 May 11, 2010

Frating green

The shade of green which is supposed to make you feel comfortable in hospitals, industrious in schools and uneasy in police stations.
Frating green by A frood February 6, 2018
To frat. To engage in "fratty" activities. To do things that fraternity brothers do. i.e. Shotgunning beers, hooking up with tons of chicks, being generally awesome, wearing backwards hats, chilling on decks.
Note: this activity is often done by bros
Synonym: "Broing out"
Yo man, what are you doing tonight?
I'll be frating all day.
Great, Ill bring the Natty
frating by Jabojabo December 12, 2009

Froating 

A rare act involving the South American Tree Frog and several species of tree-dwelling simians in the South American jungles. By inserting some portion of its body, usually the prehensile tail or its phallus (this is dependant, to an extent, on the gender of the simian), into the mouth cavity of the frog, the monkey simultaneously demonstrates its dominance as well as its acceptance of its amphibian neighbor. The completion of this conjugal act is crucial to continuation of this odd symbiotic relationship, as the tree frogs will remove harmful insects from the monkey's environment and the monkey will act to distract or eliminate possible predators.

The act, first reported in 1892, is named in honor of Sir Curtis Matthews Froat, who provided a detail account of frog-simian relations in a report to the Royal Geographical Society follow his five year expedition to the Peruvian Amazon.

Today, the term is used in popular culture to discribe a dominant symbiotic relationship, wherein both participants derive a benefit, but one of parties clearly controls the nature and extent of the partnership. It is working it way into urban dialect, as it is being used in Chicago and Atlanta to depict pimp-whore, dealer-user, kingpin-dealer, and rapper-poser interactions.
Dude, T-Bus is froating Everett. Fucker shouldn't have taken his dope without paying the first!
Froating by Halc Forstner September 4, 2010

freating 

The act of going out with a person/people you don't like just to score a free meal. Free-Eating = freating
I'm freating at that new 5 star restaurant night with some customer from work.
freating by bobbi goulet August 24, 2010
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